I'm going to compare keeping a slave totally naked vs keeping a slave clothed in general.
Totally naked: Slave is subhuman and does not enjoy the privilege of being clothed in the presence of Master. A slave should be stripped of all dignity to enforce its position as an owned slave. Though this scenario will work best in a tropical climate, it can be a challenge doing this in the thick of winter. This bring me to the idea of having the slave clothed. Can a slave get used to his nakedness?? If yes, some dynamics of stripping a guy will be lost. Hence comes, keeping a slave clothed.
Clothed: This can take many forms, only underwear or short shorts (you know I'm a sucker-punch for guys that look good in underwear/speedos!), and/or with a sleeveless muscle-T or wife-beaters. In this situation, slave is still dress lesser than its Master but can be presented to a larger audience (perhaps in public) without crossing the line of being totally naked. Keeping the slave on the edge of knowing that he can be stripped naked easily at anywhere and any time is something that can be appealing.
4 Nov 2012
3 Nov 2012
4 Feb 2012
Bound for Punishment?
Continuing on the subject of punishment, I'm going to write briefly on whether a slave should or should not be bound for punishment.
It is common to have the slave bound for punishment as a punishment is meant to be hard and intense. Hence, tieing up the slave would ensure the slave would have no means of escape from this ordeal until his Master is done.
On the other hand, I find it very interesting also to have punishment administered without having to tie up the slave. The slave will have to maintain the punishment position throughout and failure to keep the position, will incur more punishment. In this situation, a slave will most certainly earn more punishment due to his initial punishment.
Anyone would like to comment?
It is common to have the slave bound for punishment as a punishment is meant to be hard and intense. Hence, tieing up the slave would ensure the slave would have no means of escape from this ordeal until his Master is done.
On the other hand, I find it very interesting also to have punishment administered without having to tie up the slave. The slave will have to maintain the punishment position throughout and failure to keep the position, will incur more punishment. In this situation, a slave will most certainly earn more punishment due to his initial punishment.
Anyone would like to comment?
10 Jan 2012
Pain/torture play vs Punishment
My take on this subject.
Pain/torture play falls within the realm of mutual satisfaction and agreement whether it is hair pulling, light slapping/spanking, rough fucking or the very intense flogging/rape play etc. Every sub has its own range of pain tolerance and pain/torture play should be within the boundaries of sub's pain threshold. This meaning, the pain does not completely overwhelm the sub and create panic within an encounter.
As a sub gains more confidence and experience, he would want/crave more intensity into the a pain/torture play session. In this situation, pain play can follow a punishment/reward structure. It could be a simple order of telling the sub not to cum while being continuously pleasured. Subs that violate the rules will get 'punish' in the context of play. During this type of play, a sub will be thinking whether he can take anymore of this but on the other hand, will want to endure for Master's satisfaction and to ensure fulfillment to the role as a sub. This situation is also ideal to slowly expand on a sub's pain treshold and to introduce the concept of pain without pleasure that is punishment.
When a sub is in a longer term relationships, it is important to create a deeper punishment/reward structure. Here there is still pain play but also pure punishment. Though short of being owned, a slave at this point still needs to be happy and must desire to continue in such longer term arrangement. As a Master, you are taking time to train a slave and the slave should take the training seriously to show his commitment. In this case, it is imperative that Master sets more rules for the slave. Breaking of these rules will lead to punishment. Here the idea is to keep the slave happy with pain play and to show the Master's right/dominance in the form of administering punishment on a slave.
Pain/torture play falls within the realm of mutual satisfaction and agreement whether it is hair pulling, light slapping/spanking, rough fucking or the very intense flogging/rape play etc. Every sub has its own range of pain tolerance and pain/torture play should be within the boundaries of sub's pain threshold. This meaning, the pain does not completely overwhelm the sub and create panic within an encounter.
As a sub gains more confidence and experience, he would want/crave more intensity into the a pain/torture play session. In this situation, pain play can follow a punishment/reward structure. It could be a simple order of telling the sub not to cum while being continuously pleasured. Subs that violate the rules will get 'punish' in the context of play. During this type of play, a sub will be thinking whether he can take anymore of this but on the other hand, will want to endure for Master's satisfaction and to ensure fulfillment to the role as a sub. This situation is also ideal to slowly expand on a sub's pain treshold and to introduce the concept of pain without pleasure that is punishment.
When a sub is in a longer term relationships, it is important to create a deeper punishment/reward structure. Here there is still pain play but also pure punishment. Though short of being owned, a slave at this point still needs to be happy and must desire to continue in such longer term arrangement. As a Master, you are taking time to train a slave and the slave should take the training seriously to show his commitment. In this case, it is imperative that Master sets more rules for the slave. Breaking of these rules will lead to punishment. Here the idea is to keep the slave happy with pain play and to show the Master's right/dominance in the form of administering punishment on a slave.
Punishment is not meant to be pleasurable for a slave. It is use to emphasize a Master's displeasure and there should be no reward after punishment. Rewards are given to enforce positive behaviour and actions. Punishment is for disobedience. In order for punishment to be of meaning, it should be set out clear what are Master's expectation and the appropriate punishment proportion to the offence and severity of each case. The punishment is to be hard and intense with no warm up and can include non physical pain.
4 Jan 2012
SM pic of the day
1. When you need unrestricted access to slave's ass for fucking and spanking.
2. Bound hands and legs
Eye-candy of the day
A collection of guys in speedos that I like. Speedos are sexy and should be part of slave's clothing besides being naked!
2 Jan 2012
SM pic of the day
1 Jan 2012
The purpose of this blog
In the hopes of finding the right guy for a M/s relationship, through this blog you will find what my interests are, what I will be looking for and my views on the relationship that would work out for myself. I have some experience as a Dom and some as a sub. In addition, from this blog I wish to know more Masters / slaves to share ideas.
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